Today, another dear friend was asking, “Zayana penat tak nak jaga Nusaybah while being pregnant with another baby?”
“Kadang-kadang tu ada marah Nusaybah tak kalau dia nakal?”
“Uishhh.. mesti challenging kan?”
Yes it is! But after giving this issue a lot of thought, I realised that it’s part of every mother’s life to be tired with the kids and another and another and another round of pregnancy. Perhaps it’s just me who are trying hard to cope with my (pretty) new life and maybe I’ll get the hang of it after a few more years. I have, in fact, gotten some of it actually. But yes, each pregnancy comes with a new worry about “how on earth are you going to handle another kid?”.
As for that, I hold on to my dear friend Kak Adilah saying “Sekarang rasa takut kan? Tapi bila dah tambah anak esok, okay je insha Allah. Boleh je handle”
Okay Kak Dila, I trust you. And oh, I always have you in my unconscious prayers insha Allah. =)
So there you have it, what it’s like being pregnant with your second (and more) child?
– Alhamdulillah, ada Abang Ahnaf untuk tolong ibu jaga Nusaybah while ibu gets some rest and makan.
Thank you Allah for the blessings. Please make me and my family good and obedient servants to You.